{"id":19603,"date":"2024-10-28T18:56:53","date_gmt":"2024-10-28T18:56:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/?p=19603"},"modified":"2026-01-13T17:40:58","modified_gmt":"2026-01-13T17:40:58","slug":"how-to-move-out-after-a-breakup","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/how-to-move-out-after-a-breakup\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Move Out After a Breakup"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"bsf_rt_marker\"><\/div>\n<p>Breaking up with a significant other is tough and moving out is often the next step. These two events can be very stressful. We\u2019re here to help you plan how to move out after a breakup. Let&#8217;s break down each stage: before, during, and after the move.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rank-math-toc-block\"><h2>Table of Contents<\/h2><nav><ul><li><a href=\"#h-before-the-move\" >Before the Move<\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#h-find-temporary-housing\" >Find Temporary Housing<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-pack-your-essential-and-valuable-items\" >Pack Your Essential and Valuable Items<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-talk-with-your-ex\" >Talk With Your Ex<\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#h-splitting-up-shared-possession\" >Splitting up Shared Possession<\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#h-discuss-custody-of-children-and-pets\" >Discuss Custody of Children and Pets<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-figure-out-shared-financials-and-bills\" >Figure Out Shared Financials and Bills<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-inform-about-your-moving-timeline\" >Inform About Your Moving Timeline<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-plan-your-move\" >Plan Your Move<\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#h-have-people-to-help-you-move\" >Have People to Help You Move<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-renting-a-moving-truck\" >Renting a Moving Truck<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-renting-a-storage-unit\" >Renting a Storage Unit<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-during-the-move\" >During the Move<\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#h-stick-to-your-moving-timeline\" >Stick to Your Moving Timeline<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-clean-your-space\" >Clean Your Space<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-ensure-everything-is-done\" >Ensure Everything is Done<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-after-the-move\" >After the Move<\/a><ul><li><a href=\"#h-find-permanent-housing\" >Find Permanent Housing<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-focus-on-yourself\" >Focus on Yourself<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-conclusion\" >Conclusion<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#h-faq\" >FAQ<\/a><\/li><\/nav><\/ul><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-before-the-move\">Before the Move<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Planning ahead is crucial for a smooth move after a breakup. Let\u2019s explore everything you should do before officially moving out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-find-temporary-housing\">Find Temporary Housing<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Not everyone sees a breakup coming. If that&#8217;s your situation, your first priority should be finding temporary housing. This can vary for everyone, but some options include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Staying with Family<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Staying with Friends<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Booking a Hotel<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Booking an Airbnb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-pack-your-essential-and-valuable-items\">Pack Your Essential and Valuable Items<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"540\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/9\/2024\/09\/packing-essential-items.jpg\" alt=\"Packing a shirt in a box\" class=\"wp-image-19664\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/9\/2024\/09\/packing-essential-items.jpg 540w, https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/9\/2024\/09\/packing-essential-items-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 540px) 100vw, 540px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The next step in moving out after a breaking up with your partner is packing your essential items\u2014things you&#8217;ll need daily until you officially move out. Be sure to include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Clothing<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Toiletries<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Purse and Wallet<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>You may also want to pack valuable items, especially if the breakup didn\u2019t end on good terms. This will help ensure your valuables remain safe and in your possession. Some valuable items you might consider packing are:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Computer\/Electronics<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Passport and Other Important Documents<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fine Jewelry or Watches<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sentimental Items<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Vehicles You Solely Own<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-talk-with-your-ex\">Talk With Your Ex<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Talking to your ex can be challenging, but it&#8217;s a crucial part of moving out after breaking up. Try to stay polite and direct when discussing the next steps. There are several details you\u2019ll need to work out together to ensure a smooth move.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-splitting-up-shared-possession\">Splitting up Shared Possession<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>If you lived with your ex for a while, you likely have shared possessions. Now is the time to remember what you paid for and stand up for yourself.<br><br>In addition to claiming your purchases, you\u2019ll need to decide who gets the items you both paid for. A simple approach is to take turns choosing what each of you will keep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-discuss-custody-of-children-and-pets\">Discuss Custody of Children and Pets<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Custody agreements are something you may have to figure out if you and your ex had any children or pets together. If you\u2019re in this situation it can be very tricky and stressful. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.iowacourts.gov\/for-the-public\/representing-yourself\/child-custody#:~:text=Iowa%20law%20requires%20that%20the,will%20encourage%20parents%20to%20share\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Children&#8217;s custody agreements<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.custodyxchange.com\/topics\/custody\/special-circumstances\/dog-custody.php\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">pet custody agreements<\/a> can vary from state to state, so be sure to familiarize yourself with the specific laws in your area.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-figure-out-shared-financials-and-bills\">Figure Out Shared Financials and Bills<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Another important aspect to address with your ex is how to handle shared finances and bills. Some examples include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Rent<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Utility Bills<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Streaming Services<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Shared Bank Accounts and Cards<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>When it comes to rent and utilities, it&#8217;s common courtesy to contribute for the month you\u2019re moving out. Shared bank accounts are typically divided, and joint credit cards should be canceled. It\u2019s also a good idea to cancel shared streaming services and set up your own accounts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-inform-about-your-moving-timeline\">Inform About Your Moving Timeline<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" src=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/9\/2024\/09\/calandar-for-moving-timeline-1024x684.jpeg\" alt=\"Person writing on a calendar\" class=\"wp-image-19668\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/9\/2024\/09\/calandar-for-moving-timeline-1024x684.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/9\/2024\/09\/calandar-for-moving-timeline-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/9\/2024\/09\/calandar-for-moving-timeline-768x513.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/9\/2024\/09\/calandar-for-moving-timeline.jpeg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the final things to discuss with your ex is your moving timeline. Inform them of your official move-out date and provide specific dates and times. Be clear about how long you&#8217;ll need for packing and moving, whether it\u2019s a single day or multiple.<br><br>You might also ask your ex to be away from the house while you\u2019re moving out, as it could emotionally complicate the process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-plan-your-move\">Plan Your Move<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Planning your move after a breakup is crucial. Here are some key things to consider during the process:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Create a Moving Budget<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Create a Moving Timeline<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Get Packing Materials<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hire a Moving Company<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Find Moving Transport<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-have-people-to-help-you-move\">Have People to Help You Move<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Having your ex help on your moving day might be awkward, so it&#8217;s a good idea to hire or enlist others for assistance.<br><br>When <a href=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/the-search-for-hiring-the-best-movers-near-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">hiring movers,<\/a> you have options: traditional movers can handle all aspects of your move, while <a href=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">labor-only movers<\/a> focus on heavy lifting and can be more cost-effective.<br><br>If you\u2019re looking for a more budget-friendly option, consider asking family and friends for help instead of hiring movers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-renting-a-moving-truck\">Renting a Moving Truck<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Depending on the moving company you hire, you might need to <a href=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/the-most-affordable-moving-truck-rentals\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">rent a moving truck.<\/a> A properly sized truck can be very beneficial for a quick move. If you only have one day to clear out your old home, having a truck that fits all your belongings can streamline the process.<br><br><a href=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/how-to-choose-which-moving-truck-size-you-need\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Renting the right-sized vehicle<\/a> also helps save money by avoiding wasted space and reducing the need for multiple trips, which can cut down on gas expenses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-renting-a-storage-unit\">Renting a Storage Unit<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>While not everyone may have this issue, some people may not have an area to store all their belongings right away. Especially if you are only in a temporary housing situation.<br><br>There are various <a href=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/the-most-affordable-storage-units-that-fit-your-needs\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">storage options available,<\/a> so the right choice depends on your needs. Whether you prefer an indoor or outdoor unit, one close by, or a shippable option, there are plenty of storage solutions for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-during-the-move\">During the Move<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Now we&#8217;ve covered what to do before your move, let&#8217;s focus on the actual move-out day. Here are the key things to remember when moving out after a breakup.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-stick-to-your-moving-timeline\">Stick to Your Moving Timeline<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1280\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/9\/2024\/09\/women-on-computer-while-packing.avif\" alt=\"Women on laptop surrounded by packing boxes\" class=\"wp-image-19666\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the most essential tasks on move-out day is sticking to your moving timeline. It&#8217;s important to respect both your schedule and your ex&#8217;s. Stick to the packing and moving dates you agreed upon to ensure you leave their home in a timely manner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-clean-your-space\">Clean Your Space<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In addition to packing and moving out your belongings, it&#8217;s important to <a href=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/blog\/house-cleaning-tips-you-need-to-know-when-moving\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">leave the space in good condition.<\/a> A little cleaning can go a long way in ensuring the area looks nice when you move out.<br><br>If you and your ex are both on the lease, you might be eligible for a portion of the security deposit back. To maximize your chances of getting your share, do simple tasks like vacuuming, dusting, mopping, and filling nail holes. These small efforts can make a significant difference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-ensure-everything-is-done\">Ensure Everything is Done<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Once all your items are packed and moved out, it\u2019s time to tackle the final steps of moving out after a breakup. Here are some last tasks to complete before you leave:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Return your key<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Notify your landlord<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Return\/leave any items that are your ex\u2019s<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ensure all your items are with you<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Make sure all your shared bills and financials have a nearing end date<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-after-the-move\">After the Move<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>You&#8217;ve planned your move and successfully moved out\u2014what&#8217;s next? Now it&#8217;s time to focus on the steps that follow your move.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-find-permanent-housing\">Find Permanent Housing<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you haven&#8217;t already, start searching for permanent housing. If you prefer not to live alone, this is also the time to find a roommate.<br><br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rent.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Renting a house or an apartment<\/a> can help your life start to feel normal again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-focus-on-yourself\">Focus on Yourself<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>With the move behind you, it&#8217;s time to focus on yourself. Self-care is crucial after such a stressful event. Between the breakup and moving, you likely haven\u2019t had much time to do so.<br><br>Take some time to spoil yourself\u2014you deserve it! Embrace this fresh start and make the most of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-conclusion\">Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Moving out after breaking up with your significant other can be challenging. Not only are you dealing with the emotional impact of the breakup, but you also face the stress of moving. A <a href=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/movers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">moving company<\/a> can help ease the burden.<br><br>To ensure a smoother transition, plan ahead: find temporary housing, communicate with your ex, <a href=\"https:\/\/unimovers.com\/services\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">hire movers<\/a>, rent a moving truck, and consider a storage unit if needed. On moving day, stick to your timeline and make sure everything is completed. Once the move is done, focus on finding a new place to live and prioritize self-care.<br><br>Moving out after a breakup is tough, but you\u2019ve got this! Take it step by step, and do your part to make your move go smoothly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-faq\">FAQ<\/h2>\n\n\n<div id=\"rank-math-faq\" class=\"rank-math-block\">\n<div class=\"rank-math-list \">\n<div id=\"faq-question-696683aaa4ed7\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">Do I need to move out quickly after a breakup?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>This depends on your situation and personal preference. Typically, people move out quickly after breaking up. While you might move your belongings later, it\u2019s important to discuss and create a timeline with your ex that works for both of you.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-696683aaa4edb\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">Do I have to clean the shared spaces when I\u2019m moving out after a breakup?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>When moving out, make sure to clean the areas you used frequently. If you&#8217;re retrieving items from a space, it\u2019s a good idea to quickly clean the area. This is not only courteous but can also help you recover your portion of the security deposit.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-696683aaa4edc\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question \">Do I need to hire movers when moving out after a breakup?<\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer \">\n\n<p>Whether you hire movers or enlist friends and family is up to your personal preference and the level of help you need. However, movers provide professional assistance that can make your move quicker and smoother. Having support of any kind can help ensure a more efficient moving process.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Breaking up with a significant other is tough and moving out is often the next step. These two events can be very stressful. We\u2019re here to help you plan how to move out after a breakup. 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